Dating brings dramatic results to singles

Hi. My name is Lance. I’m a handsome guy with medium built figure and height. I feel that my life is hanging upside down now because of my super shy nature. Although, I get along pretty much well with others and have a bunch of close friends, I feel freezed when I come across a girl. I can’t tell you the trauma of watching my friends going out on date with the girls they meet at bars and pubs. i will be usually found sitting in a corner of bar with my drink and feeling miserable on my self. I feel really embarrassed before my friends due to my shyness. Some of my friends even tried to arrange a blind date for me, but it never seemed to work out. But it’s the limit, I really need to get rid of my shyness as early as possible. I don’t want to be labeled as the loser who never gets a date, that’s kind of too distressing. So guys, tonight I am going out on a date with a girl, whom one of my friends dated a couple of moths back. It’s a blind date as I have never met this girl. I’m too nervous; this date has to be successful. I need to find a girl that I can say I’m dating, that I can say I am going steady with. I’m tired of always being the left out one when my friends and I go out. So wish me luck!

Proposing with a solitaire diamond

So you've decided on the woman you want to marry, you've purchased the diamond and now the pressure to propose in a unique way is on. I have one word for you... RELAX! Don't stress over this, rather make it fun and something that you will remember for a lifetime. Here are some ideas to make the proposal unique and something that she will truly treasure. 1. The Scavenger Hunt: For this particular idea it is good to get a lot of people involved, including family, friends and maybe even businesses in the area. You'll want to give her clues that will progressively take her closer to her destination. As an added bonus have a rose waiting for her at each of the places so that by the time she gets the clue to come to you she will have a dozen roses. 2. The Presentation: It's pretty common to have the ring in the bottom of a glass of champagne or in the dessert but let's take some time to think a little differently. What does she like? Does she scrapbook? Then make a scrapbook about your relationship. If you do this around her anniversary she will just think you are being romantic, but on the last page you could have the ring attached. 3. Public Proposals: When at a ball game have people on the opposite side of the field hold up letters that spell out marry me, or have it put up on the jumbo-tron. Yes, it's true that this has been done, but it is still a treat to see her face when she suddenly realizes that it is her that the sign is talking about. Whatever you decide just make sure that you keep it romantic and light. This is something that you will be talking about for years to come so relax, take your time, and make it a night to remember.

Secrets to a long term and fulfilling relationship

Love means having to say you're sorry: If you make a mistake by doing or saying something that is damaging to the relationship, say that you're sorry. Many people struggle with these words, even when they know that what they did was wrong. It actually takes a strong person to apologize. Be yourself: Don't be phoney in your relationship, trying to be someone or something different as a way to please your mate. For a relationship to work, both people need to be themselves and react to things naturally. Maintain your health: Having a good relationship means having the energy to enjoy getting out and doing things together. To do that, it's important to eat right. When people are tired, they become short-tempered. For this reason, it is important to get the right amount of sleep. Good exercise keeps your body in shape for being adventurous together. Compliment a lot: Be generous with compliments. It's very common for people to notice something nice about another person and think about it internally, but never voice it. When in a relationship, compliments are like glue. They hold the couples attention and respect. Make sure your compliments are genuine. Realistic expectations: No matter how wonderful and flawless your mate seems, no one is perfect. Be careful about putting someone on a pedestal, especially in the early stages of your relationship. Ensure that the expectations you have for your mate and yourself are realistic. There are going to be differences in opinion, and probably some dis-agreements. Also, do not assume that your mate knows how you feel or what you think about something. When discussing something important to you, ensure that you both understand the same thing. The reality is that neither one of you is going to know exactly what the other one exactly needs. As long as you do not expect them to read your mind and accept that this is a part of getting to know one another and communicating, you will be fine.